Thoughts and feelings...

I saw a post on one of the forums today that made me think...

A wife had been asked by her husband to start seeing other men.  He had this huge fantasy about her cuckolding him, so she was asking for some advice on a cuckolding forum.  Was it better left a fantasy for them?  What if her husband ended up hurt and jealous because she slept with another man?  Boy, do I remember those feelings and insecurities.  But you know what?  This was, without a doubt, the best choice for us.

I will admit that I wasn't so sure to start with.  I didn't have a full understanding of cuckolding so how was I supposed to know that a man can actually be OK with his wife sleeping with other men?  It just wasn't normal!  I was so worried that my cuck had changed his mind, for some reason.  After lots of reassurance, I found an attractive man and I went to see him. 

Pretty much all of the drive home, I worried and talked to my cuck, just to see how he was.  He was surprisingly calm and was very curious.  When I got home and saw just how excited he was that I had been fucked by another man and that he was craving to hear every last detail, I didn't worry as much... until the next time out.  And then the next, and the next... I'm not sure how many more it took before I stopped worrying that my cuck was going to throw some kind of jealous fit. 

But I did stop worrying about it.  My cuckold husband wants nothing more than for me to be happy, in every way possible.  If that means sleeping in every morning, or never cooking a meal (or cooking every meal), or fucking as many men that I need to satisfy my sexual hunger, then so be it.  The more we live this lifestyle, the more we understand and appreciate each other.  I personally think every woman should be a cuckoldress!  If it means your man is practically worshipping you, why wouldn't you want to cuckold him?  But more than that, if you're truly as focused on your cuck as he is on your happiness, you end up with this really awesome, deep love and understanding of each other.  I love what I get to do.  I am happy on so many different levels in my life.  I can honestly say that without a doubt, I am happier than any of my friends or family members.  I am more confident, I am dressing more sexy in my regular day-to-day life, and I am not as cranky because I'm not sexually satisfied (LOL).  I love the person I have become, this "me" is the one I have wanted to be for a long time.  All it took was the right man to bring it out in me.  :) 

That's part of the reason when I see a forum post from a guy asking how to ask his wife to cuckold him, I want to help out. I am a firm believer that all couples should give cuckolding a chance. ;)

Wanted... a girl-friend!

Not to be confused with girlfriend.  ;)

I've been receiving requests to take pictures in "regular" clothes for the website.  Well, your wish is my command!  (and a rather easy task, I might add.)  I just go around snapping random pictures of myself during the day.  I took a really cool one against a mirror today... it's in the "Just Jinxy" part of the member's section. 

Anywho, I found a really awesome park to visit.  Some of the trails are kind of secluded, and you can take a few "naughty" pics if the right opportunities present themselves.  Since I'm going to be able to get out more (working for myself instead of corporate America), I need a friend to go around with me, for when those opportunities arise.  Snap a quick pic with my top down or of me sitting on a bench with my skirt hiked up a little so you get a peek... Know what I mean?  ;)

So, now in addition to finding local friends that know what I do, I'm on the search for someone that's comfortable taking those kinds of pictures of me as well.  And I'm more than happy to return the favor!! I'm not so bad with a camera. :) 

Just something I was excited about and wanted to share.  Another blog coming tomorrow... now that THIS (my site) is my job, I have more time to devote to things such as blogging!  And tweeting. :D And pictures.  And learning different fetishes.  And... ;)