Keep it on? Take it off?

Do you prefer it on or off?

I’m not talking about the lights!  I’m not talking about clothes… I’m talking about a woman’s wedding or engagement ring as she’s participating in hotwifing or cuckolding activities. 

This topic comes up from time to time.  Quite honestly, when I first began cuckolding my husband I never even once gave a second thought to my ring.  I am not advertising that I’m single, I’m a married woman and I want everyone to be clear on that. When I started sharing pictures (on forums), more and more requests came for pictures showing my wedding ring.  I thought it was very odd, but love to give the people what they want! 

When discussions come up on the ring topic, I am always interested in the responses.  People have said things like, it’s dishonest to remove your ring.  You’re “false advertising”, giving the impression you’re single when you’re actually a married woman.  But on the flip side, men may think a woman without a ring on her finger is more approachable, an easier conquest.  Could going sans-ring also be a way to give yourself a signal that it’s OK to flirt and track down a sex partner?  Perhaps it’s a way to role-play.  Ok, tonight I’m going out as a single, horny lady on the prowl!  Gotta leave the rings at home, so I don’t distract the hotties I’m looking to score with! 

Removing your rings, whether before you go out for the night or even right before a sexual encounter, could be a way of announcing your sexual freedom.  It could be perceived that with a wedding ring on, you’re tied to one person (sexually, emotionally, completely), therefore removing it gives you sexual liberty to do as you please…  Kind of symbolic. 

Catching a glimpse of a shiny wedding band while a woman’s hand is wrapped around some stud’s big cock is definitely a way to get some attention.  It adds a certain excitement, a naughtiness, of wondering first if that’s her husband, and secondly if it’s not, does her husband know?!  Another element that people love is a man’s cum on a woman’s wedding or engagement ring.  Seeing your wife’s hand covered in a stud’s sticky seed will quickly put a cuck in his place! Especially if she has him cleaning it off her precious rings.  (Personally, I can see how this would be hot to some people, but it’s not something I’m interested in…)

Some women use their wedding ring as a screening device – it seems to attract the “bad boy” types!  What man doesn’t want to seek out the lonely housewife that aches for a good fuck?  And what man wouldn’t like the satisfaction of fucking another man’s wife? Plus, wedding rings can be used as a discretion aid.  If a woman is out with another man and they’re both seen wearing wedding rings, people would only assume that they’re together (if no one knew either of the two parties).

My feelings on the situation: The ring is about my husband and me, not about sex.  I am just enjoying sexual experiences outside of my marriage.  It doesn’t change that I’m married to a wonderful man, my very best friend.  It also doesn’t change the fact that he’s encouraging this!  You men out there are knowingly chatting up a married woman, trying to get in her bed.  You should be able to handle the thoughts and reality of someone seeing her wedding ring and possibly asking a question.  Most hotwives are confident enough to tell anyone that asks what her relationship is, there is no hesitation to tell people that we’re lucky enough to have sex with anyone we want.  We probably aren’t the type to go yelling it from the rooftops, because we need discretion as well, but don’t freak out on us and try to come up with a cover story before we even go out on the town. (Can you tell that one happened to me?  The date didn’t happen.) 

When it comes down to it, there are more people (that I’ve come across) that prefer to see wedding and engagement rings during hotwifing and cuckolding scenes.  It makes it feel real.  You’ve all watched a porn clip… did you feel that it was real?  (Excluding the amateur stuff, I mean.)  Did you feel like that woman was actually in a relationship with the man or men she’s featured with?  Was the chemistry there?  (There doesn’t have to be chemistry for sex to be hot…)

I’ve been contacted by a lot of people that are pleased to find my site.  They are impressed that I am a real person, in a cuckolding relationship, sharing my adventures with the world.  You come across so many websites and porn clips of “cuckolding” that just feel – like a lie.  They feel fake, like people are only reading from a script to get a paycheck.  That’s one reason amateur porn does so well, it’s absolutely NOT fake!  That’s one thing I take pride in… this is what I do, every day.  I’m the real deal.  :)