Hey, honey, it’s Friday night! Which restaurant would you like to go to?
Oh, I don’t care. I’m kind of tired anyway. Let’s do the usual.
Ok.
It’s so easy to get into a routine and not want to change. It’s also incredibly easy to get into a rut (sexually speaking) and not want to try to spice things up. I’m personally guilty of this one… although sometimes I can chalk it up to my being lazy more than anything else. ;)
Hey, it’s Friday night! Do you have plans to go out?
Nah, not really. No one asked, and I’m kind of tired. I’m just going to stay at home and watch tv.
Oh, ok.
Ladies, some of us have a select few guys – or even one guy – that we prefer to have our cuckolding fun with. Seeing the same men over and over isn’t a bad thing, it builds relationships and trust. You feel more comfortable in those situations. While comfort is craved, too much causes things to get predictable and routine. Why not throw a new guy in the mix every now and again? New is exciting! Most of us will say it’s too hard to find someone, especially if it’s a short notice situation.
Speaking from personal experience, if I have someone cancel, I like to use the we have so much work to catch up on excuse. Yes, I said it – excuse. Usually a legitimate reason to keep things as they are and not try something different. I’ve found out that it’s really easy to make plans if you try a little. Start texting/emailing or even calling and you may be surprised at what you can get into!
What if, instead of being bummed about my guy cancelling, I started calling, emailing, or texting to see if any of my guys are available? Or go on the prowl for a new guy! Use that free time to search the web for someone interesting to chat with, or go out to a bar/club to see who’s hanging around looking for the right woman to have a little fun with. Chances are, there could be a free drink or two for your efforts!
YES, it takes a little (sometimes a lot of) effort on our parts to get ready to go out, or grab the laptop to get the ball rolling again. But in all honesty, don’t you love the thrill of getting to know someone new? Or using your girly charms to charm the guy staring at you from across the room? I know I do, I see that as a great perk of this lifestyle… meeting new people and having that “excitement” over and over again.
Sometimes we get caught up in our everyday lives and let our cuckolding plans fall by the wayside. Again, very legitimate reasons for this, we have to put our families first. But during those times it’s so easy to basically take a break from this lifestyle, to just cancel all plans with guys and show no interest in cuckolding. What message does that send to our cuck? In our minds, it says Family first! but to him, it could be saying I don’t want to cuckold anymore and I’m too scared to tell you, and I’m using this as a way to get out of it. Completely different sides to that story, huh? If you feel the need for a break, talk to your cuck about it. Tell him how you’re feeling overwhelmed or run-down from everything in your life, and I’m certain he will offer to help you out in any way that he can. Our cucks are willing to make sacrifices for our well-being and happiness; haven’t met a cuck yet that has said something different. Our satisfaction gives them pleasure.
It’s very easy to get into a rut and not want to work to get out of it. I believe that for the health and happiness of the cuckolding relationship, you may want to try to make some kind of effort to keep things fresh and exciting. Doesn’t necessarily have to be a new guy, it could be something as simple as a new fantasy to talk about. More often than not, it’s worth it! And in instances where it wasn’t, you probably came out of the experience with a great or amusing story.
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