The internet is full of fakes and flakes… those that pretend they have knowledge and those that actually have the knowledge but are scared to share. Then there are people that claim to be experts that know every last detail about the subject.
I don’t claim to be an expert, although I’ve heard many people use that term when talking about me. I only speak about the experiences I’ve gone through personally, I can only speak about my life and what others have shared with me.
Randall was right to call me out on something I said… I made the statement that “cucks know they are not good at sex”. You’re right, Randall, that’s NOT universally true, and the cuckolding fantasy is almost 100% a mental game. I’ve spoken to many cucks (or wanna-be cucks) that are of average and sometimes above-average penis size, asking if they would be considered small… compared to what I have at home, they’re not small. ;) But in their mind, they are a complete cuckold and unable to provide satisfaction to any woman.
Then you have the men that can go back-and-forth in the roles. One day they are the sexual stud that their wife/girlfriend and any other woman needs (even playing bull to another cuckolding couple). They have the equipment to do the job and they’re not bad at it! Giving her the satisfaction that she craves (for the moment, anyway). Then the next day, he’s in a cuck role, wearing panties and listening to his woman talk about the guy that’ll be over tonight to fuck her silly, and loving every minute of his cuckold role. There are more men that play both roles than I ever realized.
Don’t conform to any one person’s idea of this lifestyle. You may come to someone for advice or ideas, but think on it before acting. Cuckolding is what YOU make of it. The goal is to have everyone involved happier and closer than ever before.
People, what I’m trying to say is, don’t take my comments, thoughts, and musings as the absolute truth. Again, I’m only speaking from MY experiences. I’m no expert on cuckolding, just a simple woman living this lifestyle daily. I couldn’t be happier. :D
Interesting post jinxy.
ReplyDeleteI would totally agree with your point, that cuckolding is all in the mind. Some guys just aren't or can never be what their woman needs in bed. They just are not mentally/physically equipped. They might be average when it comes to endowment, but passive or submissive when it comes to sex. Most women want a man who is confident, take charge, and knows how to
"take" a woman during sex. Cuckold's cringe and flee from this.
On your second point, I'm not sure if the person who changes back and forth could really be termed a cuckold. I would say they are a switch. They enjoy power exchange from both sides, submissive or dominant. Dom one scene and sub the next
To me a cuckold is a cuckold. One hundred percent submissive in bed. More than that. Someone who knows that he is inadequate to really please his woman for whatever reason. He encourages his wife to get pleasure from other men because he knows that he can not give to her, and is also programmed, to get pleasure from her finding others to achieve this. All the pressure is off of him, and he revels in it.
Couldn't have said any better myself!
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