Hey guys. How’s it going?
Wait, this doesn’t seem like a typical Jinxy blog! You’re probably saying to yourself… and you’re right. I just wanted to take a second and talk to you all. While these blogs are informative and discussing things that are on my mind, sometimes they feel impersonal. More “teaching and discussion” and less “what’s going on in my life”. It’s time to throw one of those in the mix.
I’m sure you can tell from the obvious slow-down in updates I’m having a really busy summer. Not filled with exotic vacations or a hoppin’ social schedule. Just trying to work hard and keep things low-key around here. We have big plans for the next few months and I want to do everything I can to ensure it will be successful. It’s something we’ve wanted for a long time, and we’re so close to making it reality. Nothing will get in the way!!! I also reconnected with an old friend this summer. Kind of funny, actually, we’ve been living in the same town for 2+ years and just found each other again last week. I get a little teary when I think about how close we used to be (best friends from 4th grade through high school, and for a while after) and then we just dropped out of each other’s lives. She accepts and understands who I am, and she’s happy that I’m so happy with my life. THAT is the type of friend we need in our lives.
It hasn’t all been chocolates and roses though. There have been family members with health issues or conditions that need(ed) addressing. There’s the balancing act of keeping everyone happy while at the same time making sure everything is properly taken care of. And then there’s the laundry! But that’s part of life (the downside, not necessarily the laundry)… we deal with the good and the bad simultaneously. We can’t pick and choose – well, unless we’re in some sort of denial about our lives.
I believe I lead a pretty awesome life. I’m very lucky to be where I am, and even more lucky to have the best husband in the world that I love to pieces. I have some amazing friends that’d drop everything to help me out (lookin’ at you, KC!). I am very lucky.
Enough babble from me. REAL interesting blog coming next week. ;)
Toodles!
No worries, Jinxy. We all need some time to reflect. Keep your head up, and success will continue.
ReplyDeleteHi Jinxy,
ReplyDeleteOne of the cornerstones for Em and I is that our sex life is not the end-all-ball of our life together. Like you, we have always wanted to live life to the fullest, with as much grace and balance as we can muster.
There are always other elements of a happy and productive life that need attention. You have our support. No explanations necessary.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
You know it, girl :-)
ReplyDeleteBFF's forever and all that other high school like stuff hehe, I'm lucky to have you, too!
I love you! :-D
Jinxy, Congratulations on reconnecting with your friend. You are right that we need friends that accept and understands who we are.
ReplyDeleteSorry for the double post. I guess I hit submit before I finished. LOL
ReplyDeleteIn addition the the congratulations I wanted to comment on cuckolds and their friends. Well at least my experience.
One of the most difficult things about being a cuckold is the isolation. Right now my wife is the only one I can talk to about being a cuckold because she is the only one that knows everything.
My friends and family do have indications about our lifestyle. They sometimes joke how we are "kinky" and they know we "swing" in some form or another. But they do not know I am a cuckold because I am unable to perform and my wife fucks other men 3-4 times a week. No they do not know that.
So, it is hard sometimes when I am talking to my friend or my brother on the phone and I cannot really tell them what I am thinking or feeling. I cannot talk to them about the Angst I am feeling because I sitting home alone waiting for my wife to return from a date or how much fun I had taking my wife shoe shopping for a pair of "anybody but you fuck me" pumps.
I have a couple friends that I think would understand but then I am afraid of how it will change our relationship. On the other hand my wife and I have talked about how this would add to the thrill of my humiliation if my friends and family knew I was a cuckold.
However it goes, my point is that it is lonely road being a cuckold. When your cuckoldress is not around you really do not have anyone to talk to about being a cuckold.
Until I found Jinxypie's sites that is. Thanks Jinxy.
CuckMac
Love to hear these updates and you should throw more personal things than just how to stuff. This way we can relate with you as a person some. :)
ReplyDeleteWell, I usually keep some of the personal babbling over on my Vloggity. =) I figure more people come over here to get real info.
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