Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Are you brave enough to try it?

Imagine finding someone that loves you for everything you are, as the saying goes ‘warts and all’.  What if part of who you are is a woman with a very high sex drive?  Sure, men think about sex just as much as a woman does.  But are they up to the task of satisfying you? Can they keep your sexual appetite in check?

Believe it or not, there are so many men that are looking for a woman to love them and cuckold them at the same time.  I get many emails from such men, hoping that I have a friend interested in a similar lifestyle that I lead.  Much to their dismay, I don’t have many single friends… but I have started pointing them in the direction of a specific website, hotwifedating.com.  It’s a website that basically caters to the hotwifing/cuckolding lifestyle, a site where hotwives, bulls, or cucks can go find a “match” for their current situation. 

In talking with the webmaster of hotwifedating.com, he agrees that there are not enough women that are aware of this lifestyle.  It’s one that so many men want their wives to have, to enjoy to the fullest, yet many women are oblivious to the fact that it even exists.  There are many hotwives and cuckoldresses that are able to find as many bulls as they’d like, but what about those women that have a high sex drive and may be single? Those women that certainly would enjoy having their sexual freedom, but also having a man to care about, to love, and that loves them back, that’s completely willing to let her go and have sex with as many men as she pleases.  Where do we find those ladies?

That’s really hard to answer.  A lot of women grow up not really talking about their sexuality, or being told that due to their religious upbringing, sex is something you’ll figure out when the time is right.  But you’re ONLY supposed to have sex with that ONE person for the rest of your life, like it or not.  It’s really hard to break the ideas that you’ve been force-fed most of your life.  Even if a woman doesn’t really feel that way inside, she has to act like it for the sake of society. We’re not supposed to ‘rock the boat’ or be the one seen as different and scandalous!  What if your flirty, trampy behavior gets back to your boyfriend or husband?! 

What I would like for women to realize is, you don’t have to sneak around and hide what you’re doing.  When you’re trying to be secretive and hiding things, you’re more on edge and always paranoid.  How can you be happy if you’re constantly worrying?  You don’t need to feel like you have to hide it!  There are so many men out there that want nothing more than to have someone to love and treat like a princess, that will go out and be with as many men as she desires.  You CAN have your cake and eat it too!  And then have some brownies and pie and ice cream, and as many other deserts as you’d like. ;) 

Ladies, don’t feel like you need to be restricted or hide who you truly are. Once you realize you can be honest and open about everything in your heart and mind, you’ll start to see the changes in yourself – and you’re bound to feel better than ever.  Don’t you want a cuck of your own?

2 comments:

  1. I would like to hear how others weigh in on this question.

    It may be pure egotism on my part but I would postulate that the number one thing that makes cuckoldry work is a strong and stable marriage. I am guessing that if a blue police box were to appear out of nowhere and I spent the next 20 years zooming through space and time with the Doctor, my wife would grieve a bit and then concentrate her time and efforts on finding a great husband first. I suspect that most women would find it easier to find a great husband with the potential to become an acceptible cuck, than it would be to find a great cuck and hope and pray that you could make a semi-decent husband out of him.

    I know if I disappeared my would still have desires to enjoy a cuckolding relationship. I just don't think she would look for a cuck first. I think she would give up cuckolding to have a great marriage, but I doubt she would accept a less than great marriage just have the cuckolding.

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  2. @rphil815- I have to agree with you here. I think that a marriage has to be on solid ground for cuckolding to work and that if a marriage is solid then cuckolding can grow from there. Why wouldn't a woman who loved her husband be willing to at least give cuckolding a try if she knew it satisfied her husband's desires and needs? Most women in this day and age aren't as prudish about sex as their mothers were. And truth be told, their mothers probably weren't so prudish either.

    Best,

    scott
    Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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