When I hear the term fluff, I don’t automatically think sex. Well, that thought previously wasn’t my first. But here lately… LOL. You think of fluffing a pillow or marshmallow fluff (YUMMY!), or something completely non-sexual. What exactly IS fluffing?
In the cuckolding world, the fluffer is usually the cuck. He will either orally or manually stimulate the bull that’s servicing his wife or girlfriend. He may also help orally and manually arouse his Cuckoldress, but this term is mostly related to acts on the males.
It’s safe to say that not every cuckolding couple is into the fluffing fetish. Some bulls may not like the idea of some wimpy guy – or any guy, giving them oral sex. Or, perhaps the Cuckoldress has no desire to see her cuck orally pleasing her lover, no matter how humiliating it would be to him. A cuck’s mission is to give their lady anything she desires. We all have our limits, so maybe your cuck’s line is drawn at oral sex with other men. What I’m trying to say is no matter how common it may seem, fluffing happens less often than you’d think. Unless you work in a pornography studio that caters to cuckolding clips. ;)
For those that enjoy this fetish, it can add a much deeper level to your relationship. Whether it is to bring on more humiliation, or to show your dominance over your wimpy cuck-boy, or even to let him satisfy a few of his bicurious tendencies, those that have an interest in fluffing definitely try to add and expand on it as much as possible. For me, I love having control and power. When I turn up the Cuckoldress-ness (like my word there? I do.) I want my cuck to basically worship and adore me, doing every last thing I ask and acknowledging my role as his Woman, and him as my little cuck. I wouldn’t want him to hesitate if it came down to fluffing a bull to get him ready for me.
This fetish is fairly simple and straightforward. You have your basic definition. You may be into it, you may not be. So, the question is – are you into it? :)
Thursday, June 24, 2010
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Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Fetish Month Blog 4 - Feminization.
Feminization, sometimes also referred to as sissification, is typically used in instances of female dominance. It can also be a person’s choice to change from male to female either physically or behaviorally, not something they’re forced in to. Feminization can be something temporary and fetishistic, like wearing lingerie or taking on feminine mannerisms, or can go as far as actual transgender surgeries and emasculation. As I mentioned in the Cuckolding 101 episode for June 8th, many cuckolds may never live out their fantasies of feminization and some cuckolds may think the whole idea of feminization is ludicrous.
The most simple and sometimes unknowing level of feminization starts with the lady taking more control of decisions regarding the money and household. The cuck usually ends up with tasks like household chores, cooking, keeping the children so his woman can go out, etc. That in itself is a sort of submissiveness, she’s controlling her submissive partner by having him do the mundane, typical “female” tasks so she can take on the more “masculine” role of doing whatever the heck she pleases. This is one of the least invasive and uncomfortable ways for men to become feminized, but at the same time it provides both parties with a sense of duty and purpose that may not be agreeable to how they were raised.
As she becomes more assertive and in turn, her cuck becoming more submissive, they might decide to take feminization a step further, with full on cross dressing or simply wearing ladies underwear. Wearing panties does not make a man gay, no matter how many men have the fear that they’d be seen as such. A little bit of searching around online (on non-fetishized websites) told me that even the straight male that has no interest in feminization, cuckolding, etc, likes to wear panties because they are a different fabric, they feel much nicer than regular men’s underwear. Some even go so far as to say it makes them feel sexy. If it feels good, do it! Right?
Women that enjoy forcing their husbands into feminization love the power and control they gain over him. What woman doesn’t love to feel strong and powerful? Not to mention, there are a lot of men that want this, but are ashamed to admit that it’s their desire. They wish to wear frilly or lacy things, they want to paint their toe nails or try on high heels… but they don’t have the guts to share that fantasy. Some of these men that are “forced” into feminization try to put up a fight or act like they have no desire, just so as to not let on that this is what they really want. Perhaps the relinquishing of power is something they enjoy, and once they truly become submissive and do as their partner wishes, they have fully given themselves to her.
In our relationship, we don’t go overboard with feminization at this time. Right now we have the least invasive kind of feminization. He takes care of most of the household duties, while I focus on controlling things.
Feminization in relation to cuckolding seems to be growing quite rapidly in our lifestyle. I look forward to your thoughts and comments on this one!
The most simple and sometimes unknowing level of feminization starts with the lady taking more control of decisions regarding the money and household. The cuck usually ends up with tasks like household chores, cooking, keeping the children so his woman can go out, etc. That in itself is a sort of submissiveness, she’s controlling her submissive partner by having him do the mundane, typical “female” tasks so she can take on the more “masculine” role of doing whatever the heck she pleases. This is one of the least invasive and uncomfortable ways for men to become feminized, but at the same time it provides both parties with a sense of duty and purpose that may not be agreeable to how they were raised.
As she becomes more assertive and in turn, her cuck becoming more submissive, they might decide to take feminization a step further, with full on cross dressing or simply wearing ladies underwear. Wearing panties does not make a man gay, no matter how many men have the fear that they’d be seen as such. A little bit of searching around online (on non-fetishized websites) told me that even the straight male that has no interest in feminization, cuckolding, etc, likes to wear panties because they are a different fabric, they feel much nicer than regular men’s underwear. Some even go so far as to say it makes them feel sexy. If it feels good, do it! Right?
Women that enjoy forcing their husbands into feminization love the power and control they gain over him. What woman doesn’t love to feel strong and powerful? Not to mention, there are a lot of men that want this, but are ashamed to admit that it’s their desire. They wish to wear frilly or lacy things, they want to paint their toe nails or try on high heels… but they don’t have the guts to share that fantasy. Some of these men that are “forced” into feminization try to put up a fight or act like they have no desire, just so as to not let on that this is what they really want. Perhaps the relinquishing of power is something they enjoy, and once they truly become submissive and do as their partner wishes, they have fully given themselves to her.
In our relationship, we don’t go overboard with feminization at this time. Right now we have the least invasive kind of feminization. He takes care of most of the household duties, while I focus on controlling things.
Feminization in relation to cuckolding seems to be growing quite rapidly in our lifestyle. I look forward to your thoughts and comments on this one!
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Fetish Month Blog 3 - Humiliation.
Shame. Disgrace. Embarrassment. Who would have thought that those feelings can cause emotional or sexual arousal?
I believe that the goal with erotic humiliation isn’t scarring someone for life. It’s meant to be an exchange of power, with the more dominant partner causing a loss of inhibition with her partner, the submissive (or cuck) is willingly giving up control of themselves; it’s quite the mind game and really intimate. It brings in a bit of the “unknown” and vulnerability, making things playful and fun, and causing a rush of endorphins that creates an amazing arousal to the situation.
Most people involved with a humiliation fetish have high stress and high maintenance jobs. (Same could be said about cucks.) Humiliation is meant to make you question yourself, to really evaluate who you are and what makes you tick sexually, and to explore the avenues that may frighten you. Cucks/submissives crave the ability to lose control, to give up a part of themselves and not have to make any major decisions, not have to even think. They are told what to do, they are told (even in a playful situation) what their Mistress thinks of them, what she wants, etc.
I read a really good article written about humiliation, and I encourage you all to read it as well if you are interested in the fetish. Something the author says really made me think. She created her own definition of humiliation, as it relates to a fetish: To objectify, encouraging the embrace of parts of themselves not normally celebrated. Think about it… you’re telling your man that he has a small penis. Shameful? Sure, if he feels that way about it. But you’re also encouraging him to embrace his small endowment. (Haha, not in the literal sense, but I guess that works too.) I think sometimes that can work in the reverse, too. Take me, for example. Sometimes I really enjoy being called a slut. I’m embracing that part of myself that many people frown upon. It may be a derogatory term to many, but I find it hot… it makes me feel powerful, in a sense.
There are two main types of humiliation, physical and emotional. Physical humiliation can come in the form of cross-dressing (this is even more humiliating if the cuck or submissive is dressed as the opposite gender in public), spanking, whipping, or other types of restraints such as chastity belts, forced anal penetration, role playing, and more. Emotional humiliation is an extremely mental and intimate act. Verbal belittlement and insults, being forced to ask permission to do simple tasks, mockery - it can also be visual. Watching another man having sex with your wife is quite humiliating, on multiple levels!
So many men have written to me, asking advice on how to help their wives or girlfriends understand what this fetish means for them. How can it be exciting to hear how you don’t satisfy your woman, or that you prefer a more endowed man than your own cuck? It’s really difficult for women to grasp, and honestly it took me a while to even start to understand it. You tell a woman that she’s bad at sex, or that her breasts are too small, or she is only good for cleaning house – and most likely she’ll be out the door so fast your head will spin. For us, humiliation isn’t fun. It hurts. How do you expect us to willingly humiliate our guy? Won’t it hurt him too? …the answer is, yes it will hurt, but it has the opportunity to “hurt so good”. If your cuck is into the humiliation fetish, hearing those things will excite him beyond anything you can ever imagine. First, both parties need to discuss where the limits lie. I have personally spoken with a few men that have their “list”… things they absolutely WON’T do or tolerate. For one in particular, you do not call him stupid or dumb, or anything like. That is the end-all. It’s fine to make him wear panties, clean-up duty, housework, whatever – just never call him stupid. When limits like that are so clearly painted, you realize you have so many avenues to explore! Now that the lines are drawn, you can start taking baby steps. If you start off with verbal, then choose the phrases you discussed. As you get more comfortable with it, branch out on your own and come up with new words or phrases to get him going. Eventually you may move on to physical humiliations of your choosing. Just remember to keep having open discussions on this outside of ‘play time’ so you can make sure you’re not doing any damage. Humiliation, while being an intimate and intense fetish, can also scar pretty badly if there’s no regard for those limits.
Now, let’s not confuse those damaging feelings with angst. After a cuck has reached orgasm, he will usually lose all his willingness to participate in cuckoldry. He needs love, reassurances, even some cuddling! It’s only a matter of time (sometimes a few minutes, or up to a few days) before he comes back around and is in cuck-mode, ready for some more of the pleasure that comes with the fun of cuckoldry and cuckold angst.
As a cuck (or Cuckoldress), do you enjoy the humiliation fetish? If not, is it something you wish you participated in?
I believe that the goal with erotic humiliation isn’t scarring someone for life. It’s meant to be an exchange of power, with the more dominant partner causing a loss of inhibition with her partner, the submissive (or cuck) is willingly giving up control of themselves; it’s quite the mind game and really intimate. It brings in a bit of the “unknown” and vulnerability, making things playful and fun, and causing a rush of endorphins that creates an amazing arousal to the situation.
Most people involved with a humiliation fetish have high stress and high maintenance jobs. (Same could be said about cucks.) Humiliation is meant to make you question yourself, to really evaluate who you are and what makes you tick sexually, and to explore the avenues that may frighten you. Cucks/submissives crave the ability to lose control, to give up a part of themselves and not have to make any major decisions, not have to even think. They are told what to do, they are told (even in a playful situation) what their Mistress thinks of them, what she wants, etc.
I read a really good article written about humiliation, and I encourage you all to read it as well if you are interested in the fetish. Something the author says really made me think. She created her own definition of humiliation, as it relates to a fetish: To objectify, encouraging the embrace of parts of themselves not normally celebrated. Think about it… you’re telling your man that he has a small penis. Shameful? Sure, if he feels that way about it. But you’re also encouraging him to embrace his small endowment. (Haha, not in the literal sense, but I guess that works too.) I think sometimes that can work in the reverse, too. Take me, for example. Sometimes I really enjoy being called a slut. I’m embracing that part of myself that many people frown upon. It may be a derogatory term to many, but I find it hot… it makes me feel powerful, in a sense.
There are two main types of humiliation, physical and emotional. Physical humiliation can come in the form of cross-dressing (this is even more humiliating if the cuck or submissive is dressed as the opposite gender in public), spanking, whipping, or other types of restraints such as chastity belts, forced anal penetration, role playing, and more. Emotional humiliation is an extremely mental and intimate act. Verbal belittlement and insults, being forced to ask permission to do simple tasks, mockery - it can also be visual. Watching another man having sex with your wife is quite humiliating, on multiple levels!
So many men have written to me, asking advice on how to help their wives or girlfriends understand what this fetish means for them. How can it be exciting to hear how you don’t satisfy your woman, or that you prefer a more endowed man than your own cuck? It’s really difficult for women to grasp, and honestly it took me a while to even start to understand it. You tell a woman that she’s bad at sex, or that her breasts are too small, or she is only good for cleaning house – and most likely she’ll be out the door so fast your head will spin. For us, humiliation isn’t fun. It hurts. How do you expect us to willingly humiliate our guy? Won’t it hurt him too? …the answer is, yes it will hurt, but it has the opportunity to “hurt so good”. If your cuck is into the humiliation fetish, hearing those things will excite him beyond anything you can ever imagine. First, both parties need to discuss where the limits lie. I have personally spoken with a few men that have their “list”… things they absolutely WON’T do or tolerate. For one in particular, you do not call him stupid or dumb, or anything like. That is the end-all. It’s fine to make him wear panties, clean-up duty, housework, whatever – just never call him stupid. When limits like that are so clearly painted, you realize you have so many avenues to explore! Now that the lines are drawn, you can start taking baby steps. If you start off with verbal, then choose the phrases you discussed. As you get more comfortable with it, branch out on your own and come up with new words or phrases to get him going. Eventually you may move on to physical humiliations of your choosing. Just remember to keep having open discussions on this outside of ‘play time’ so you can make sure you’re not doing any damage. Humiliation, while being an intimate and intense fetish, can also scar pretty badly if there’s no regard for those limits.
Now, let’s not confuse those damaging feelings with angst. After a cuck has reached orgasm, he will usually lose all his willingness to participate in cuckoldry. He needs love, reassurances, even some cuddling! It’s only a matter of time (sometimes a few minutes, or up to a few days) before he comes back around and is in cuck-mode, ready for some more of the pleasure that comes with the fun of cuckoldry and cuckold angst.
As a cuck (or Cuckoldress), do you enjoy the humiliation fetish? If not, is it something you wish you participated in?
Monday, June 7, 2010
Fetish Month blog 2 - Domination.
Domination has its place within a cuckolding relationship. As a Cuckoldress, I am expected to have a dominating side, even if it’s something that didn’t happen with me naturally. Not saying it hasn’t evolved as I have come out of my shell, but it wasn’t very prominent in the beginning. But I think the misconception is, people believe a Cuckoldress to be dominant all the time, with everyone. I don’t feel comfortable exerting a dominating attitude with everyone I meet. I generally reserve that type of attitude for my husband.
Many of the people into being dominated are, in fact, dominant in their everyday life. They are professionals with high stress jobs in which they have to be in control. What better way to let loose and be carefree than to lose all control of what’s happening? If you submit yourself to your Mistress, she calls the shots. She can order you around and force you to do things not because you have no direction in life, but because you don’t want to be in control at that point in time. It’s your way to release. A cuck takes it one step further. Instead of just losing control of the situation they lose control of their ability to have sex with their woman. Their lady doesn’t have to be faithful; it’s her choice to take on additional lovers.
Most cucks may also be looking for a twinge of female domination in their relationship, they feel the need to have a powerful, controlling woman telling them what to do. They don’t want to be in control. It does play out in a bit of a Dominant / submissive way, with the Cuckoldress of course having the control. Their Goddess should direct them, let the cuck know her wishes and desires, and he is to make it happen without question. It’s what she wants, so he’d better do it himself or find someone that can get the job done to her specifications! By making sure all her wishes have come true or she never has to lift a finger in the house, she is likely to be pleased with her cuck and she can continue to be in Cuckoldress mode, either ordering him around or finding lovers to see.
Another way that cuckolding relates to domination is in the terminology. Many times I capitalize the beginning C in Cuckoldress, but I don’t normally capitalize cuck. Same with Goddess or Mistress, somehow by capitalizing that one letter when referring to the woman, you’re showing that she is the one in charge, she has more power. The terms also seem to portray a worshipping or admiration for the lady. I wouldn’t normally want to be referred to as Goddess! But in my Cuckoldress role, it is quite flattering.
There are other avenues of domination and ways to incorporate other fetishes into your cuckolding relationship. Many cucks are into chastity, foot worship, or financial domination, amongst other things. It goes back to not having any control of what’s happening, they are forced into chastity (or they go willingly because their woman requests it), or they’re being told to hand over their paycheck. It’s a thrill for them and quite arousing.
I am the type of person that has embraced her dominance. Like I said, I don’t throw that attitude out with everyone, but those that have known me for a long time can see a difference in relation to how I used to be. I am much more confident and I speak my mind now, I don’t put up with ignorant “crap”. If I’m unhappy I will most certainly say so, even if it takes me a bit to come up with the exact words I want to say. I tell people what I want and I expect it to happen. (I’m not unreasonable or outlandish – usually – with my requests.) But as far as my sexuality goes, I call the shots. If I don’t feel like seeing anyone because I’m too tired from working, you can bet I’m going to lie around in my pajamas all evening. If I’m so horny I can’t stand it, I’ll be calling my short list guys to see if they can meet up, and if that doesn’t pan out I’ll grab my favorite toy and take care of business. I am in charge when it comes to sex. Any guy that has tried to get with me can tell you, he’s on MY timetable; he has to play by MY rules. I don’t like not having control of those situations, I’m always in charge. My dominance doesn’t only cover my relationship with my husband, but I’m willing to bet most men will admit their wives control the household and family. In our family I don’t outwardly “overrule” anything and everything my husband says, we usually have similar views or thoughts on things and if we differ or disagree, we talk about it. I won’t always play the “do as I say” card. I am willing to listen. ;)
With all that being said, keep in mind that not ALL cucks wish to be dominated. They are perfectly content with their Cuckoldress taking charge of her sexuality and sex life, but they don’t feel the need to lose control of themselves. Many Cuckoldresses still take care of the house, and even have regular daytime jobs. Nothing changes except she is sexually active with multiple partners. Domination isn’t for everyone, but sometimes playing with the fetish can help enhance your relationship and help you to open your mind to new experiences.
Many of the people into being dominated are, in fact, dominant in their everyday life. They are professionals with high stress jobs in which they have to be in control. What better way to let loose and be carefree than to lose all control of what’s happening? If you submit yourself to your Mistress, she calls the shots. She can order you around and force you to do things not because you have no direction in life, but because you don’t want to be in control at that point in time. It’s your way to release. A cuck takes it one step further. Instead of just losing control of the situation they lose control of their ability to have sex with their woman. Their lady doesn’t have to be faithful; it’s her choice to take on additional lovers.
Most cucks may also be looking for a twinge of female domination in their relationship, they feel the need to have a powerful, controlling woman telling them what to do. They don’t want to be in control. It does play out in a bit of a Dominant / submissive way, with the Cuckoldress of course having the control. Their Goddess should direct them, let the cuck know her wishes and desires, and he is to make it happen without question. It’s what she wants, so he’d better do it himself or find someone that can get the job done to her specifications! By making sure all her wishes have come true or she never has to lift a finger in the house, she is likely to be pleased with her cuck and she can continue to be in Cuckoldress mode, either ordering him around or finding lovers to see.
Another way that cuckolding relates to domination is in the terminology. Many times I capitalize the beginning C in Cuckoldress, but I don’t normally capitalize cuck. Same with Goddess or Mistress, somehow by capitalizing that one letter when referring to the woman, you’re showing that she is the one in charge, she has more power. The terms also seem to portray a worshipping or admiration for the lady. I wouldn’t normally want to be referred to as Goddess! But in my Cuckoldress role, it is quite flattering.
There are other avenues of domination and ways to incorporate other fetishes into your cuckolding relationship. Many cucks are into chastity, foot worship, or financial domination, amongst other things. It goes back to not having any control of what’s happening, they are forced into chastity (or they go willingly because their woman requests it), or they’re being told to hand over their paycheck. It’s a thrill for them and quite arousing.
I am the type of person that has embraced her dominance. Like I said, I don’t throw that attitude out with everyone, but those that have known me for a long time can see a difference in relation to how I used to be. I am much more confident and I speak my mind now, I don’t put up with ignorant “crap”. If I’m unhappy I will most certainly say so, even if it takes me a bit to come up with the exact words I want to say. I tell people what I want and I expect it to happen. (I’m not unreasonable or outlandish – usually – with my requests.) But as far as my sexuality goes, I call the shots. If I don’t feel like seeing anyone because I’m too tired from working, you can bet I’m going to lie around in my pajamas all evening. If I’m so horny I can’t stand it, I’ll be calling my short list guys to see if they can meet up, and if that doesn’t pan out I’ll grab my favorite toy and take care of business. I am in charge when it comes to sex. Any guy that has tried to get with me can tell you, he’s on MY timetable; he has to play by MY rules. I don’t like not having control of those situations, I’m always in charge. My dominance doesn’t only cover my relationship with my husband, but I’m willing to bet most men will admit their wives control the household and family. In our family I don’t outwardly “overrule” anything and everything my husband says, we usually have similar views or thoughts on things and if we differ or disagree, we talk about it. I won’t always play the “do as I say” card. I am willing to listen. ;)
With all that being said, keep in mind that not ALL cucks wish to be dominated. They are perfectly content with their Cuckoldress taking charge of her sexuality and sex life, but they don’t feel the need to lose control of themselves. Many Cuckoldresses still take care of the house, and even have regular daytime jobs. Nothing changes except she is sexually active with multiple partners. Domination isn’t for everyone, but sometimes playing with the fetish can help enhance your relationship and help you to open your mind to new experiences.
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Fetish Month blog 1 - Interracial
I read many different message boards online, trying to find things to talk about. I also believe that there are more people living an online fantasy world than living these scenarios in real life and sharing them on the web. Anyway, in this online reading, you find that there are some people that don’t really understand that cuckolding isn’t ONLY a white cuck, white Cuckoldress, and a black bull. There are white bulls, Latina Cuckoldresses, I’ve even received email from a black cuck. We come in all shapes, sizes, and colors! Those folks are more focused on interracial, than they are necessarily cuckolding. It’s not that these people are wrong, it’s just that they’re focusing on different parts. Interracial cuckolding is exactly what they WANT this fetish to be, they’re wearing blinders and focus only on seeing a white cuck, white Cuckoldress, and black bull. A lot of men see black men as superior, dominant beings that make women weak in the knees and turn us into submissives. I guess that’s somewhat true, as black men generally have a better attitude towards sex, they are more relaxed and easygoing and certainly more confident, and it’s easier to gravitate towards people like that. But so many guys are under the impression that black is best and no woman would want anything but a huge black cock.
You ask other women (that are in open or cuckolding type relationships) if ‘once you go black, you never go back’ rings true and you get different answers. I know of one woman that hasn’t had a black lover since her teenage years, but is still open to the idea. Yet another woman doesn’t ever want to have sex with a black man, and another woman I know recently had her first experience with a black man and now that’s all she can think about. I guess that means the real answer to that question is: for some people yes, and for others, no.
Personally, I have no reservations about interracial sex. I also don’t believe I should limit myself when it comes to men. If you have absolutely none of the qualities that I deem attractive, you don’t have a chance. Race or skin color aren’t the factors I take into consideration when choosing the men I see. Attitude, confidence, openness in communication, and especially intelligence are very attractive in my eyes. My husband used to talk about all of the computers in the building, or rambled on about eponymous adages (I believe his favorite being Hanlon’s razor) and I would be mesmerized at his knowledge. I found it incredibly hot! Anyway, it’s not all about smarts with me. Show me a guy with some nice arms and a good smile, and I melt like a popsicle on a hot day. What I’m trying to say is, my preferences have nothing to do with the color of your skin.
I had never had an interracial experience of any kind until just over a year ago. The guy I was with knew exactly how to play the bull role, and he made things really easy for me. Even talking to my cuck was easier during the experience. Sex with him was AMAZING, and it really hit me that I was limiting myself when it came to men and the things I could experience. Kind of an awakening, I guess you could say… I didn’t know sex could be so good!
There is also a big fantasy attached to interracial sex for a lot of cuckolding couples, and that’s impregnation. Fantasy or reality, it gets a lot of couples excited. Something is so erotic about hearing your bull tell you how he’s going to get you pregnant, and you will carry his baby. (Granted, I’m being safe when it comes to sex and all of this is fantasy in my world, but it does happen in reality for some couples. I have personally spoken with a couple that is living out this fantasy. I have encouraged them to blog about the entire experience, and if they do so I will definitely post about it here.) For so many cucks, just the thought of having your wife or girlfriend become pregnant after being with her black lover is enough to send them over the edge – the good one, not the bad one. (haha) They may not have shared that fantasy with their lady, but it’s still a hot topic for many guys.
Let me know what your thoughts are on interracial cuckolding. :) Mondays blog: Domination.
You ask other women (that are in open or cuckolding type relationships) if ‘once you go black, you never go back’ rings true and you get different answers. I know of one woman that hasn’t had a black lover since her teenage years, but is still open to the idea. Yet another woman doesn’t ever want to have sex with a black man, and another woman I know recently had her first experience with a black man and now that’s all she can think about. I guess that means the real answer to that question is: for some people yes, and for others, no.
Personally, I have no reservations about interracial sex. I also don’t believe I should limit myself when it comes to men. If you have absolutely none of the qualities that I deem attractive, you don’t have a chance. Race or skin color aren’t the factors I take into consideration when choosing the men I see. Attitude, confidence, openness in communication, and especially intelligence are very attractive in my eyes. My husband used to talk about all of the computers in the building, or rambled on about eponymous adages (I believe his favorite being Hanlon’s razor) and I would be mesmerized at his knowledge. I found it incredibly hot! Anyway, it’s not all about smarts with me. Show me a guy with some nice arms and a good smile, and I melt like a popsicle on a hot day. What I’m trying to say is, my preferences have nothing to do with the color of your skin.
I had never had an interracial experience of any kind until just over a year ago. The guy I was with knew exactly how to play the bull role, and he made things really easy for me. Even talking to my cuck was easier during the experience. Sex with him was AMAZING, and it really hit me that I was limiting myself when it came to men and the things I could experience. Kind of an awakening, I guess you could say… I didn’t know sex could be so good!
There is also a big fantasy attached to interracial sex for a lot of cuckolding couples, and that’s impregnation. Fantasy or reality, it gets a lot of couples excited. Something is so erotic about hearing your bull tell you how he’s going to get you pregnant, and you will carry his baby. (Granted, I’m being safe when it comes to sex and all of this is fantasy in my world, but it does happen in reality for some couples. I have personally spoken with a couple that is living out this fantasy. I have encouraged them to blog about the entire experience, and if they do so I will definitely post about it here.) For so many cucks, just the thought of having your wife or girlfriend become pregnant after being with her black lover is enough to send them over the edge – the good one, not the bad one. (haha) They may not have shared that fantasy with their lady, but it’s still a hot topic for many guys.
Let me know what your thoughts are on interracial cuckolding. :) Mondays blog: Domination.
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