I read many different message boards online, trying to find things to talk about. I also believe that there are more people living an online fantasy world than living these scenarios in real life and sharing them on the web. Anyway, in this online reading, you find that there are some people that don’t really understand that cuckolding isn’t ONLY a white cuck, white Cuckoldress, and a black bull. There are white bulls, Latina Cuckoldresses, I’ve even received email from a black cuck. We come in all shapes, sizes, and colors! Those folks are more focused on interracial, than they are necessarily cuckolding. It’s not that these people are wrong, it’s just that they’re focusing on different parts. Interracial cuckolding is exactly what they WANT this fetish to be, they’re wearing blinders and focus only on seeing a white cuck, white Cuckoldress, and black bull. A lot of men see black men as superior, dominant beings that make women weak in the knees and turn us into submissives. I guess that’s somewhat true, as black men generally have a better attitude towards sex, they are more relaxed and easygoing and certainly more confident, and it’s easier to gravitate towards people like that. But so many guys are under the impression that black is best and no woman would want anything but a huge black cock.
You ask other women (that are in open or cuckolding type relationships) if ‘once you go black, you never go back’ rings true and you get different answers. I know of one woman that hasn’t had a black lover since her teenage years, but is still open to the idea. Yet another woman doesn’t ever want to have sex with a black man, and another woman I know recently had her first experience with a black man and now that’s all she can think about. I guess that means the real answer to that question is: for some people yes, and for others, no.
Personally, I have no reservations about interracial sex. I also don’t believe I should limit myself when it comes to men. If you have absolutely none of the qualities that I deem attractive, you don’t have a chance. Race or skin color aren’t the factors I take into consideration when choosing the men I see. Attitude, confidence, openness in communication, and especially intelligence are very attractive in my eyes. My husband used to talk about all of the computers in the building, or rambled on about eponymous adages (I believe his favorite being Hanlon’s razor) and I would be mesmerized at his knowledge. I found it incredibly hot! Anyway, it’s not all about smarts with me. Show me a guy with some nice arms and a good smile, and I melt like a popsicle on a hot day. What I’m trying to say is, my preferences have nothing to do with the color of your skin.
I had never had an interracial experience of any kind until just over a year ago. The guy I was with knew exactly how to play the bull role, and he made things really easy for me. Even talking to my cuck was easier during the experience. Sex with him was AMAZING, and it really hit me that I was limiting myself when it came to men and the things I could experience. Kind of an awakening, I guess you could say… I didn’t know sex could be so good!
There is also a big fantasy attached to interracial sex for a lot of cuckolding couples, and that’s impregnation. Fantasy or reality, it gets a lot of couples excited. Something is so erotic about hearing your bull tell you how he’s going to get you pregnant, and you will carry his baby. (Granted, I’m being safe when it comes to sex and all of this is fantasy in my world, but it does happen in reality for some couples. I have personally spoken with a couple that is living out this fantasy. I have encouraged them to blog about the entire experience, and if they do so I will definitely post about it here.) For so many cucks, just the thought of having your wife or girlfriend become pregnant after being with her black lover is enough to send them over the edge – the good one, not the bad one. (haha) They may not have shared that fantasy with their lady, but it’s still a hot topic for many guys.
Let me know what your thoughts are on interracial cuckolding. :) Mondays blog: Domination.
Agreed; interracial is a HOT Fantasy for many but in reality it is something else to others as You said. I feel as You there is no reason for a Lady to limit herself to one race.
ReplyDeleteEm has been cuckolding me for over ten years and during that time she has had sex with four black men. Two of them became regulars.
ReplyDeleteI have to admit there was something about it that crawled deep into our sexual psyches. We love it when she has a black lover and the cuck chemistry is in high gear. BBC? Stereotypical, I know, but if the boat floats, why not go fishing?
As for interracial pregnancy, we never wanted that. But it is a powerful fantasy. The real potential is also powerful. One time Em and her lover had a condom break. That made for a an intense nail-biting few weeks before her next period.
There was no way that we would have conceived a child as the outgrowth of a sex game but it would have been difficult to deal with terminating a life.
To be totally honest about it, even though it would have been difficult, I longed for her to carry a black child and for us to raise it together. These are true feelings that well up from my shadow self regardless of the consequences. Sometimes what you feel isn't rational.
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scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
Thank you for the very honest reply Scott. Does anyone else have any feelings or thoughts they would like to share?
ReplyDeleteInterracial sex between a black man and a white woman has always been an erotic taboo for me. Perhaps it comes from a deep seeded racial tension that was taught to most of my generation growing up. Mixed with me being a submissive man, I think it triggers a feeling of women I'm attracted to turning their backs on my entire race, if only in fantasy.
ReplyDeleteSo when I first encountered interracial cuckold content on the web years ago, I was naturally drawn to it and immediately hooked. In my mind, there is nothing more erotic.
Unfortunately, my wife is not attracted to black men in general. This has taken away a lot of hope for me. But I have learned to be into all forms of cuckoldry since the act in itself is just as intense.
As far as the "Once you go black..." saying goes, I think a more appropriate assessment is that once you find your favorite flavor of ice cream, you rarely go back to the old flavors that now dull in comparison. It is about finding a favorite rather than saying that Black is everyone's favorite. That's why the saying works for some and not for others.
I need the IR aspect. I love the idea of a Black Bull being superior to a white boy. Maybe it's a stereotype, but it's a sexy stereotype! lol. Obviously we all have our preferences, and everyone should be free to pursue their sexuality as they see fit.
ReplyDeleteWhile we all have our preferences. Each of us is allowed to have those preferences. So if a white couple only likes to be with a black bull. Then great for them.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't like is when some people seem to view their preferences as the only way it should be for everyone else. They get the idea in their head that their way is right and everyone else must be wrong.
There is no doubt that the black bull in the cuckolding aspect is huge (no I'm not talking about dick size :) ). You go to any website that has a cuckolding theme of some sort. Majority of the pictures or videos will be a black bull with a white cuckoldress. Yet I also wonder if a lot of this has to do with the porn industry pushing out this idea. If you take a group of couples who really have not clue on cuckolding. They then go online to check it out. They of course see the majority of the pictures and videos are black bulls. A lot of times they walk away with the conclusion that black guys must be the bulls and only black guys can be bulls.
On a personal note I do enjoy the interracial aspect. In the reverse though. I'm white so as a bull I enjoy being with Asian, east Indian and black women. I guess a reverse thrill of the black bull and white cuckoldress aspect.
My wife and I were getting on a plane to savannah a few years ago. There were 2 very good looking black gentlemen sitting in first class. We had to stand next to them as we waited to go down the aisle and she struck up a conversation with the one man. He said when we get to Savannah to look them up. I was beside myself and told her this was a invite. She said I was imangining his intent. Man oh man, I still wish she would have accepted his invite. Who knows where it would have led. Perhaps 2 black gentlemen having their way with her while I waited or watched...or maybe more1 Oh well, I can dream can't I?
ReplyDeleteThank you for pointing out how insane certain attitudes and myths have become about cuckoldry. My opinion is that the majority of "IR" cuckoldry exists only online, on websites, and in fantasy. I've had guys tell me that the *only* way cuckolding can happen is with a white woman and a BBC. As if cuckolding could not happen in Russia, China, etc where the infamous "BBC" owners don't really even reside. I mean lets face facts, Black males do not live, in large numbers, on many places on this planet. One also has to factor in that penis size and all those lies are just that, lies. Ummm, Pygmies anyone? Hello? This myth that all black males have a 14 inch penis seems to be largly continued by white males with some serious latent homosexual tendencies.
ReplyDeleteAnyhow, great blog. :)
Yeah, it's wrong for someone to say that cuckolding, for everyone, can "only" be IR. I don't know who's saying that, but clearly they're mistaken. But it is okay for someone to say that one prefers cuckolding with a Black bull. That's a personal preference, nothing wrong with that. Personally, cuckolding doesn't interest me without the IR element. I need it to be a Black bull- and no, I'm not gay! lol. But that's just my preference, and I would never tell anyone else what to do. We should all just be tolerant of each other. I don't know why that is such a hard to concept to grasp.
ReplyDeleteI do have to disagree with the very immature and insulting concept that white men who want a Black bull are "latent homosexuals." I'm sure some are gay or bi, but I'm not. I have no interest in having sex with another man, Black or otherwise. Accusing men of being a "latent homosexual" is not very tolerant or respectful, that kind of language is really part of the problem. It's amazing that people involved with fetishes can be so judgmental.
It's the taboo, domination, and skin contrast for me. My wife is very conservative and watching her cut loose is a huge turn-on.
ReplyDeleteI would want to help her get ready and drive separate cars to the same restaurant where she meets him. I'd sit near them and watch them together while other patrons glare. The taboo.
Then, I'd go to the hotel and wait in the closet and watch her do whatever he wanted, kneel in front of him, make love and intertwine their bodies. Maybe he's bareback. My wife is so beautiful that it would turn me on to watch her enjoy sex that much.
The domination? She gets the Yin and Yang tattoo on her lower back...wears the anklet...and feels very sexy. She'd get approached a lot even when I'm nearby.
Truthfully, I hope the turn on goes away. I won't approach her with it, even in fantasy.
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