Thursday, June 24, 2010

Fetish Month Blog 5 - Fluffing.

When I hear the term fluff, I don’t automatically think sex.  Well, that thought previously wasn’t my first.  But here lately… LOL.  You think of fluffing a pillow or marshmallow fluff (YUMMY!), or something completely non-sexual.  What exactly IS fluffing?

In the cuckolding world, the fluffer is usually the cuck.  He will either orally or manually stimulate the bull that’s servicing his wife or girlfriend.  He may also help orally and manually arouse his Cuckoldress, but this term is mostly related to acts on the males. 

It’s safe to say that not every cuckolding couple is into the fluffing fetish.  Some bulls may not like the idea of some wimpy guy – or any guy, giving them oral sex.  Or, perhaps the Cuckoldress has no desire to see her cuck orally pleasing her lover, no matter how humiliating it would be to him.  A cuck’s mission is to give their lady anything she desires.  We all have our limits, so maybe your cuck’s line is drawn at oral sex with other men.  What I’m trying to say is no matter how common it may seem, fluffing happens less often than you’d think.  Unless you work in a pornography studio that caters to cuckolding clips. ;)

For those that enjoy this fetish, it can add a much deeper level to your relationship.  Whether it is to bring on more humiliation, or to show your dominance over your wimpy cuck-boy, or even to let him satisfy a few of his bicurious tendencies, those that have an interest in fluffing definitely try to add and expand on it as much as possible.  For me, I love having control and power.  When I turn up the Cuckoldress-ness (like my word there?  I do.)  I want my cuck to basically worship and adore me, doing every last thing I ask and acknowledging my role as his Woman, and him as my little cuck.  I wouldn’t want him to hesitate if it came down to fluffing a bull to get him ready for me. 

This fetish is fairly simple and straightforward.  You have your basic definition.  You may be into it, you may not be.  So, the question is – are you into it?  :)

6 comments:

  1. For me this is a very hot fantasy,something I havnt done,but I would really love to do.For the cuck it is such a humilating act,having to suck another Man,to make him nice and hard so he can fuck your Woman is just awesome.

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  2. I am and do it whenever the opportunity arises.

    Best,

    scott
    Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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  3. I just found your blog and videos, ma'am. I think You are fantastic and Your husband is lucky! I love that you are so real. thank You for sharing your fem dom life.

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  4. I am into it, but my wife is not, at least in real life. We do play some where I suck on a dildo and "get him hard for her". Perhaps if we did get started with cuckolding, it may be a possibility that we can explore down the road.

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  5. I personally would be into this fetish from the prospective if my Lady wanted it. Keeping the Lady Happy is what is All about in book.

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  6. Hi Jinxypie,

    I get the sense that you are NOT that into fluffing. Can/would you share how YOU feel about it?

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