Feminization, sometimes also referred to as sissification, is typically used in instances of female dominance. It can also be a person’s choice to change from male to female either physically or behaviorally, not something they’re forced in to. Feminization can be something temporary and fetishistic, like wearing lingerie or taking on feminine mannerisms, or can go as far as actual transgender surgeries and emasculation. As I mentioned in the Cuckolding 101 episode for June 8th, many cuckolds may never live out their fantasies of feminization and some cuckolds may think the whole idea of feminization is ludicrous.
The most simple and sometimes unknowing level of feminization starts with the lady taking more control of decisions regarding the money and household. The cuck usually ends up with tasks like household chores, cooking, keeping the children so his woman can go out, etc. That in itself is a sort of submissiveness, she’s controlling her submissive partner by having him do the mundane, typical “female” tasks so she can take on the more “masculine” role of doing whatever the heck she pleases. This is one of the least invasive and uncomfortable ways for men to become feminized, but at the same time it provides both parties with a sense of duty and purpose that may not be agreeable to how they were raised.
As she becomes more assertive and in turn, her cuck becoming more submissive, they might decide to take feminization a step further, with full on cross dressing or simply wearing ladies underwear. Wearing panties does not make a man gay, no matter how many men have the fear that they’d be seen as such. A little bit of searching around online (on non-fetishized websites) told me that even the straight male that has no interest in feminization, cuckolding, etc, likes to wear panties because they are a different fabric, they feel much nicer than regular men’s underwear. Some even go so far as to say it makes them feel sexy. If it feels good, do it! Right?
Women that enjoy forcing their husbands into feminization love the power and control they gain over him. What woman doesn’t love to feel strong and powerful? Not to mention, there are a lot of men that want this, but are ashamed to admit that it’s their desire. They wish to wear frilly or lacy things, they want to paint their toe nails or try on high heels… but they don’t have the guts to share that fantasy. Some of these men that are “forced” into feminization try to put up a fight or act like they have no desire, just so as to not let on that this is what they really want. Perhaps the relinquishing of power is something they enjoy, and once they truly become submissive and do as their partner wishes, they have fully given themselves to her.
In our relationship, we don’t go overboard with feminization at this time. Right now we have the least invasive kind of feminization. He takes care of most of the household duties, while I focus on controlling things.
Feminization in relation to cuckolding seems to be growing quite rapidly in our lifestyle. I look forward to your thoughts and comments on this one!
My Girlfriend cuckolds me, and when she sees her lover I do all the household chores.This happens everytime she goes out.Its like a ritual.I do all the housework,washing,ironing etc while she is having fun with her lover.She loves it when she comes home to a lovely clean house.
ReplyDeleteHey, love the update, especially the personal note at the end about where you are with feminazation in your own marriage. So hot to read about how you have him do chores while you assume the role of leader in the house and have him stay home and take care of family needs while you go out with other men. Hot hot hot!!!Your truly the Cuckoldress of dreams:)
ReplyDeleteHi Jinxy,
ReplyDeleteI don't know but I think that in order for someone to be feminized their gender identity needs to be manipulated, turned upside down. Simply being a houseboy and submissive could be a start but not necessarily lead to feminization. Being forced to identify as a woman or willingly to do so mark one as being feminized.
It bothers me that so many men see being feminized as a humiliation. I hold my wife in the highest regard and think being a woman would be a fabulous experience. I can only imagine the high of feeling the cock of a man who is insanely aroused by you sink deep into your pussy. But I'm not a woman and whenever Em and I tried to play with gender it just didn't work for us so we stopped doing it.
I'm her bitch and her cuckold and love that more than any other sexual experiences I've had.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse
I think feminization reaches to the depths of our submissive psyche. Like cuckolding, there is nothing more submissive than being treated like the feminine gender when we have been taught all our lives to stand up like a man, be the man of the house, and protect what is ours like a man.
ReplyDeleteAs if cuckolding wasn't enough, to also be feminized in front of your wife's lover shows that you have lost the battle that you have been raised to fight. This is highly erotic for those of us that are into this type of play.
My wife and I practice feminization when it comes to me wearing panties and staying home while she goes out partying. I've always loved wearing panties and the way they make me feel. I admittedly have a much sexier collection of panties than my wife. She has said before that it is because I am the bitch of the relationship. For some reason, she gets a kick out of me in panties, and I am very thankful for that.
It is agreed that when my wife does find the right guy with whom to cuckold me, I will be in panties when I watch, further establishing our roles. Her lover is the man in the room, my wife is his woman, and I am the sissy wimp who does nothing but watch a real man take my wife.
I have just recently entered into a cuckold relationship as the cuckold of course. I found a man for my wife online where I started just sharing pictures. He was close to use and contacted me. It started out slow enough, sharing pictures, chatting about my wife, but then progressed. Meeting, giving worn panties to him, and then progressed into feminization by him as a way of putting me in my place in the relationship. I love it and this whole situation as I do love being in my place and feminization is a great way of doing it. I regularly wear lingerie now and am progressing. If you want to chat I am on yahoo at pparker500. thanks
ReplyDeleteI have been following your YouTube series and blog for the last few weeks and have to say that I have enjoyed it. Its sort of rare (sad to say) to find an intelligent woman who can speak on a subject online these days. Kudos to you. :)
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